Ano po ba ang qualities ng balanced woman?

A woman must be interesting—and mysterious. Spiritual but not overly religious. Reachable but not really available. Humurous but not funny. Knowledgeable but not know-it-all. Virtous but not holier-than-thou. Aware but not self-conscious. Open but not wide open. Audible but not loud. Visible but not everywhere. Special but not snobbish, interested but not eager.



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