Anu-ano ba ang pangit at magandang naidudulot ng pagiging perfectionist na leader?


Maganda: People are stretched to maximize their potentials. Pangit: Perfection is unattainable. The leader becomes oppressive, the followers get exhausted. Nobody is satisfied and everyone gets frustrated because perfect goals are unmet. Hindi masaya. Laging may stress.


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